Loaded title, sure, but the point stands.
I generally offend a lot of people by speaking my mind at all times and calling spades spades. Some people may call me insensitive or a throw back to a long gone era but a lot tend to agree with what I say as someone pointed out the other day when they said “why do you always speak so much sense?” after overhearing one of my conversions.
Now from my perspective it works like this:
Me speaking freely without self censoring keeps me attuned to my truth unlike everyone else whom I see attempt to be pretendy mind readers who can somehow miraculously guess what others are thinking and how they’d respond if they were to say A so instead they keep that inside and say B instead and to me that is the epitome of a slow death as each lie drains your life force via the denial of your initial impulse.
Think back to your childhood before life beat you to your knees and made you comply to its expectations and you’ll remember a time, however slight, where you were blunt as a spoon before you donned the false persona of social acceptability and thus began your downfall which led you to where you are now.
What is so sad about all of this is that people don’t see how corrosive this culture of little white lies and concealed truths is when it comes down to the most important relationship - you with yourself because external deception sets the groundwork for internal deception and thus we end go with a world like this where people manufacture proof as they lie to themselves and anyone who stands up and dares to keep it a 100 is looked at like they are from another solar system.
It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a society that is profoundly sick and ultimately it comes down to who you are and how you define your self:
Via the reflection and reaction of others? In which case lies are the order of the day as the false image needs to be fine tuned to another expectations at each moment or via self acceptance and honesty on all levels in which case it’s called as it’s seen and the consequences are dealt with appropriately.
One is a path of power, the other is the cul de sac of the culled. Where are your steps taking you and have you ever stopped to check exactly how you ended up on that way and where it leads to?
I generally offend a lot of people by speaking my mind at all times and calling spades spades. Some people may call me insensitive or a throw back to a long gone era but a lot tend to agree with what I say as someone pointed out the other day when they said “why do you always speak so much sense?” after overhearing one of my conversions.
Now from my perspective it works like this:
Me speaking freely without self censoring keeps me attuned to my truth unlike everyone else whom I see attempt to be pretendy mind readers who can somehow miraculously guess what others are thinking and how they’d respond if they were to say A so instead they keep that inside and say B instead and to me that is the epitome of a slow death as each lie drains your life force via the denial of your initial impulse.
Think back to your childhood before life beat you to your knees and made you comply to its expectations and you’ll remember a time, however slight, where you were blunt as a spoon before you donned the false persona of social acceptability and thus began your downfall which led you to where you are now.
What is so sad about all of this is that people don’t see how corrosive this culture of little white lies and concealed truths is when it comes down to the most important relationship - you with yourself because external deception sets the groundwork for internal deception and thus we end go with a world like this where people manufacture proof as they lie to themselves and anyone who stands up and dares to keep it a 100 is looked at like they are from another solar system.
It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a society that is profoundly sick and ultimately it comes down to who you are and how you define your self:
Via the reflection and reaction of others? In which case lies are the order of the day as the false image needs to be fine tuned to another expectations at each moment or via self acceptance and honesty on all levels in which case it’s called as it’s seen and the consequences are dealt with appropriately.
One is a path of power, the other is the cul de sac of the culled. Where are your steps taking you and have you ever stopped to check exactly how you ended up on that way and where it leads to?
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