I've also posted this on rllmuk, but I am really worried about my mother and would appreciate any insight that people can give.
Anyone have experience of nervous breakdowns from work-related stress? My poor old mum, age 66, has had one.
She seemed absolutely fine on the phone last Friday. Then out of the blue on Tuesday I got an e-mail from her saying that she couldn't cope at work, was about to be fired, and that it wouldn't be possible for my wife and me to visit in December for Christmas.
When I got home I phoned them, and my father informed me that she had had a complete breakdown. I spoke to her for a few minutes, but she wasn't herself at all, just sounded exhausted and not really saying anything. She hung up rather unexpectedly.
Yesterday my father e-mailed me with a bit more information. She keeps saying over and over that she is about to be sacked, and that they will have only 48 hours to leave the country (the UAE), neither of which are the case according to her bosses, with whom he has spoken. She is on sick leave for the next week at least. Meanwhile dad is having a hard time coping on his own.
I have made the point to both of them that their health is paramount, and that there is nothing wrong with calling time on their stint in the UAE and returning to England.
Really worried about mum. Do these things resolve themselves? Is there any chance that she might never return to her old self?
I am definitely going to visit them in the UAE myself in December. If she is better, then great. If not, then my dad will need a break from doing everything himself.
All insights welcome.
Anyone have experience of nervous breakdowns from work-related stress? My poor old mum, age 66, has had one.
She seemed absolutely fine on the phone last Friday. Then out of the blue on Tuesday I got an e-mail from her saying that she couldn't cope at work, was about to be fired, and that it wouldn't be possible for my wife and me to visit in December for Christmas.
When I got home I phoned them, and my father informed me that she had had a complete breakdown. I spoke to her for a few minutes, but she wasn't herself at all, just sounded exhausted and not really saying anything. She hung up rather unexpectedly.
Yesterday my father e-mailed me with a bit more information. She keeps saying over and over that she is about to be sacked, and that they will have only 48 hours to leave the country (the UAE), neither of which are the case according to her bosses, with whom he has spoken. She is on sick leave for the next week at least. Meanwhile dad is having a hard time coping on his own.
I have made the point to both of them that their health is paramount, and that there is nothing wrong with calling time on their stint in the UAE and returning to England.
Really worried about mum. Do these things resolve themselves? Is there any chance that she might never return to her old self?
I am definitely going to visit them in the UAE myself in December. If she is better, then great. If not, then my dad will need a break from doing everything himself.
All insights welcome.
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