Are you happy?

[MrKirov]

Haha funnily I was legit looking into getting another rescue cat earlier.

I don’t want to feel like I’m replacing Freya though. Plus, being alone I worry it would impact my life a bit more where I couldn’t come and go when I please or whatever.

Plus if I have to sell up, and move to rented- the pain of finding somewhere that would accept pets etc would be a nightmare.

My head says no but my heart wants another little kitty

[kryss]

Well, it's nice that it isn't just your penis doing all the thinking anyway!

[cutmymilk]

I have to admit, for a week or so I thought Freya was your daughter and your ex took your her. I was relieved when I realised it was a cat.

[gunrock]

He's need deep in hot kitty and all he wants is a cat!

[Zen Monkey]

One of the surest ways to happiness is forget oneself and focus on others. Get a job working for a charity organisation, if that impossible then do a few hours volunteering at a local charity shop or an animal sanctuary, the National Trust or similar organisations. If that's out the question too then no problem. It needn't necessarily be that grand a gesture. Just do something nice for your partner, your parents, your kids, a pet, a stranger. Even ten minutes playing with a dog or a cat works wonders.

[MrKirov]

UPDATE:

My last CBT session was today. I've learnt a lot about myself, and im feeling confident in coping now. I've learned a lot of my issues stem from some abandonment issues from my childhood, and my historic obesity impacting my confidence and how I feel about myself. I've learnt to identify that my brain tends to think negatively automatically, and assume those negative thoughts aren't always accurate. Taking a step back to see whether a worry is a hypothetical worry, or an actual current concern is really helpful- as is questioning my automatic negative beliefs, and thinking whether they are actually based in reality or not. All in all, i'm coping, i'm doing good, and although its going to be a long process, I'm actually not afraid for the future

For those who seem to want to know, woman update..!!

Date from last week wants friends with benefits.Ex's work colleague was a bit mental, got out of that. Blowie woman too full on, ended that. Started talking to 2 girls on Thursday. One had an...intimate... video chat on Friday, and were meeting next week. The other sent me a few pics...and then asked me out on Saturday. Had a few drinks and some fun. Now chatting to a doctor who is utter filth (!!!) and meeting this week, another girl wants to meet this week who ive been chatting for a few weeks, and also speaking to a 23 year old who wants some fun.

This is getting complicated now :|

[Dogg Thang]

Blowie woman

I think I must have missed this update.

[Zaki]

I think I must have missed this update.

Blowie woman?

Imagine a bird who looks like David Bowie and liberally gives blowjobs.

[Neon Ignition]

It's almost eye watering how different my life is to some others at times. I played with pussy this weekend too



We went to the Cat Cafe

[QualityChimp]

Hang on, guys.

I'm just checking the rules to see if I can ban somebody for getting more than the rest of us put together!

[Neon Ignition]

... there were a lot of cats in that cafe

[MrKirov]

Started chatting to a 23 year old this morning... I’m now meeting her for drinks at 8pm ... honestly... How is this happening to me?!?!

[Blobcat]

I really want to get into this pussy playing action but sadly we can't have pets atm.

[MENTION=5941]Asura[/MENTION] is still not convinced about getting a cat in the future which, i'll be frank, is something that does upset me as I have always wanted a cat of my own. We'll get a dog at some point which I will be happy about (he did not grow up with pets but I always have had animals in the family.)

Apart from that I am rather happy. We have just moved into a nicer flat if a bit dearer in rent, but already reaping the benefits of a larger, brighter and drier place. Work is pretty rubbish and crazy busy my end and busy at the blokes but I am having the 'fun' of re-organizing our new flat.

[teddymeow]

Blowie woman?

Imagine a bird who looks like David Bowie and liberally gives blowjobs.

"Ground control to Major Tom,
I've just finished put your pants back on".

[kryss]

Hang on, guys.

I'm just checking the rules to see if I can ban somebody for getting more than the rest of us put together!

Parsing the Forum Bylaws is certainly a way to spend an evening. I'm worried your bits will start falling off Kirov!