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    Lonliness of a long distance gamer

    How many people play your game ?

    You've just spent your hard earned on a shiney new (or retro) game.
    Perhaps one that you had to save for and it took ages to afford/find/import a copy.
    Remember one scratch and it could be unplayable or the possible trade in value
    could be ruined.

    But you're ok with them.

    Always handling them with care, replacing them in the case after play.
    Handling and reading the instructions so you don't crease them
    or leave finger marks (don't forget to wash your hands).
    But, once they've left your sight, what then.
    Your mates can't afford these games, they've got bills/kids/morgages/unemployed and you're a good mate.
    But are THEY?
    Ahhh, that look on your face when they return your items to you, all wrapped up in a carrier bag.
    Baby's home, all's well.

    I remember a time when the above virtually described my routine with the
    games that I puchased. I'd been into gaming many years, having emigrated from the home
    computers of the 80s to the PCE, MD, Snes and NeoGeo. Yeah those were the days, having access
    to all those crazy games that people drooled over in C+VG/Mean Machines.
    Unfortunately they came at a high price (Just like those releases for the 360, the importers are shafting us again > )

    The PCE was my main machine although my 'so called' mates laughed at the '8bit' machines -
    until they got one. Then it was time to beg, borrow and steal.

    I was/am very easy going and loaning out games (sometimes with the hardware to play them on)
    became a regular occurance. Then I started to notice things were missing when I got them back.
    Spines and registration cards were missing from the PCE / NEO CD games and the case lids had developed 'nipples'.
    Neo Geo AES games were returned with the shock box inserts smashed and instruction booklets were
    dog-eared/creased and on occation water-soaked. None of this mentioned when they returned the items.
    I even had a copy of WipeOut for PS (US) returned with JAM/JELLO all over the box and JAM/JELLO finger prints on the CD, were they accidental or was something deliberate going on?

    This all came to a head when a person that I was introduced to by a 'borrower' decided to help himself
    to a few of my most prized (expensive?) PCE games. He was one of the few PCE collectors that I knew
    at that time (everyone else having moved onto the 32bits ) and would spend ages thumbing through the
    CD storage I kept them in. Perhaps making 'mental notes' where the ones he wanted were located and
    when I nipped to the loo......Bye Bye.

    It was also goodbye so called mates.

    When I look at the condition of the games that I puchased after I stood at the door and said "not interested - go away" they're all basically new. However when I look at the stuff prior - I think to myself:

    "I must have been a right pr*ck".

    What nightmare scenarios have you faced when loaning out/receiving back games, or does the prospect of being parted from them mortify you?
    Has loaning out games ever stressed a friendship or do you trust them because they also collect/appreciate them?
    Or, you're not a collector and only purchase pre-owned games so the condition of them not matter so long as it plays?

    #2
    I don't loan. Period. Mate of mine got in a right strop over this some years ago but as he was earning a decent wage and could never be trusted to return anything period, he got a faceful.

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      #3
      I used to trade games and lend and rent games from mates - never had anything stolen though. Now I don't really bother.

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        #4
        I lent a guy called Robert Fielding a copy of Panzer Dragoon Saga once....he was part of these forums and videogameimports forums. He never sent it back and ended up selling it to someone on these forums.....right bastard

        He's at the top of this list:

        Friendly Import video game discussion forum, informative reviews, NTSC (Japan / US) and PAL - BordersDown (previously known as NTSC-uk)
        Last edited by Zaki; 21-06-2011, 16:43.

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          #5
          I only lend things out to people I trust. I once lent a SNES game out to a friend and it came back crushed as he'd sat on the box while playing- learnt my lesson there. (Another one saved over my metropolis on SNES Sim City after I'd asked him not to too. Memory cards were a godsend!) Although I despise the collector mentality I still appreciate it if people have respect for something that someone else has paid for.

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            #6
            I regularly lend CDs and games to a mate of mine and he regularly brings them back in a worse condition. It's annoying but what can you do? Stop lending him stuff I suppose. Haha. Maybe I'm too nice (but I don't really believe that so more likely I'm too stupid) but I don't consider it an option. Stuff should be shared.

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              #7
              I only have one case of this which has really angered me. Lent out my copy of DBZ Burst Limit to a forum friend years ago now and still haven't gotten it back after asking for it back a bunch of times.
              I have a couple of other games on long loan to some really good friends but I know they will look after them and give them back one day lol (My Chibi-Robo is the other side of the country from me >.< )

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                #8
                I remember my housemate opened a parcel of mine and helped himself to the first play of my jpn imported chibi Robo

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                  #9
                  I remember when you lent me your Cube and games <3
                  Got to love Sonic Adventure 2 and my rather poor skills at the time!

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                    #10
                    I'd loan out my new DC imports to people like GregMoss. Never had anything weird happen to them. I remember back in the NES days me and Parkinho would exchange games at primary school, same ****, from what I remember everything was taken and given just fine.

                    I also used to exchange imports with the old GAME manager, who six years later turned out to be one of my Gamestation managers.

                    Whenever I borrow stuff I put effort into looking after it even more than if it was my own.

                    Actually, one 'acquaintance' borrowed my jp MvC2 cover/manual so he could replicate some of the art, never got that back, what a ****.

                    The only other things that went missing were my official DC VGA Box and disc from my Yu Suzuki GameWorks book, I think I'd loaned them to a mate who then came out of the closet which led to me not being mates with him anymore, hence I'm minus my stuff.

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                      #11
                      I've got one mate who I lend the odd game/dvd but these days that's the limit with it. CD's in particular seem to be mishandled by a lot of people. It's like when a game comes out on a Friday and is 2nd hand by Monday in a knackered condition, it convinces me half of people live like pigs. I've got loads of games etc and I'm not obsessive about their condition for the most part but there's no damage done to them. It's remarkably difficult to scratch a disc or break a box which shows how bad/disrespectful people often are with other peoples property

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                        #12
                        I lent the 360 Ghostbusters to a work colleague. He brought it back, and I left it in my desk drawer at work overnight as I was out to the pub that night and didn't want to take it with me.

                        Came in the next morning and the case was open on my desk and the disc was gone...

                        Always lock my desk at work now, sad that I have to really.

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                          #13
                          Pfft, you work in a games company where people steal games from colleagues? What kind of sickos get employed there?

                          That reminds me of the iPod I bought for my GF as a leaving present. I left it on charge in our studio as I was also loading music on to it for her flight home. The day after I turn up and the cable had vanished. I had two days to find another official cable sharpish as I had to package the thing back up like it hadn't been opened in time for her leaving. What an absolute ***** trick. Had to get one from the Apple store and pay for lighting-up-the-ass postage at 35 bats all in. I was in a team of five people, one person with one iPod who just recently had lost his cable on holiday... yeah, I wonder who took it.

                          I'd have raided his desk before leaving and coming to Singapore, only I'm not a twat like that.

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                            #14
                            We had a spate of things going missing around that time, think we caught the culprit on the webcam eventually.

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                              #15
                              My friends who were really into the stuff like I was, at that young age, took very good care of anything I lent them.

                              Had more problems lending out music and films as I got older. One friend in particular lost dozens of tapes and cds till I thought, that's it, no soup for you!

                              The thing is he was just really good at doing my head in until I lent him something. It was prickish behaviour from him but the only reason I did it is that in everything else he was the perfect mate and very generous too. But he didn't really collect anything and didn't value material stuff.

                              Another friend lost everything (kung fu films mainly) a few years back and so I copied him a load, and I mean a load, of films to cheer him up. When I looked at the discs I gave him after a few months they were scratched and scuffed badly. He just can't look after anything.


                              Then there's another friend's girlfriend who leaves discs looking like she's been skating on them but she'll never get her hands on anything of mine again.

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