The Relationship Thread-Good, Bad or Indifferent.

[kryss]

So I just got back from having dinner with my mate whose girlfriend of 3 years just pulled the usual "i don't love you" BS on him. He is not in a good way and usually doesn't let anything get to him. I'm just hoping he doesn't hit the bottle too hard.

[MisterBubbles]

Thats what mates are for Steven, you've been there got the t shirt, so know the drill, just be there and support him, and take him for a beer or 2 just so he can splurge to you.

[kryss]

He admitted that he'd basically not eaten for a day and a half so dinner was his first meal. Apparently he'd been watching stuff on Netflix and doing nothing else. I remember those days. Still do the same thing now, lol.

[Neon Ignition]

We've been kind of sitting on our hands since the engagement waiting on a PPI claim to decide whether we'll be having a long term engagement or whether we'll have enough funds to move straight into turning our upcoming holiday into a wedding & engagement.

Today my account recieved some funds. All systems go

[MisterBubbles]

So Injury Lawyers for You, do some good after all, if i receive one more call at work or home i'll scream. Oh congrats CTN.

[JSR]

The girl I mentioned earlier sent me a text half an hour ago. She wanted to meet all of a sudden, was in the area. I think these sort of situations are kinda scary, so springing something like this on me isn't ideal for me. I replied "Hey, wanna meet tomorrow instead?" She said she would prefer to do it today. By now I was in "man cave mode"; I had not showered today, sat in shorts and t-shirt and had planned to spend the rest of the night drinking coke and playing DS. Therefore I found it best to "warn" her that I wasn't exactly as dolled up as I'd like to be. I replied that I was a bit fatigued from having been out yesterday, but that I could still meet her. Immediately after I hit "send", I changed clothes, threw on some deodorant and waxed up my hair. Few minutes later she replied that we could do it tomorrow instead. Having learnt that she travels home on sundays around 2-3 o'clock, I asked what time she wanted to meet. She replied that we should just see tomorrow how it works out. Makes me think that it might fall through again tomorrow.

This whole situation has been a short emotional roller-coaster for me. Totally disrupted my laxed out saturday, and I now sit in fear of what tomorrow will bring. Gawd.

[charlesr]

What's the worse that can happen? You chat, don't get on and don't bother seeing each other again?

Or.... it could be great!

[koopatroopa90]

What's the worse that can happen?

If the Dr Pepper adverts are anything to go by, quite a bit

[kryss]

Just don't start wrestling her dad and all will be good. I imagine.

[noobish hat]

The girl I mentioned earlier sent me a text half an hour ago. She wanted to meet all of a sudden, was in the area. I think these sort of situations are kinda scary, so springing something like this on me isn't ideal for me. I replied "Hey, wanna meet tomorrow instead?" She said she would prefer to do it today. By now I was in "man cave mode"; I had not showered today, sat in shorts and t-shirt and had planned to spend the rest of the night drinking coke and playing DS. Therefore I found it best to "warn" her that I wasn't exactly as dolled up as I'd like to be. I replied that I was a bit fatigued from having been out yesterday, but that I could still meet her. Immediately after I hit "send", I changed clothes, threw on some deodorant and waxed up my hair. Few minutes later she replied that we could do it tomorrow instead. Having learnt that she travels home on sundays around 2-3 o'clock, I asked what time she wanted to meet. She replied that we should just see tomorrow how it works out. Makes me think that it might fall through again tomorrow.

This whole situation has been a short emotional roller-coaster for me. Totally disrupted my laxed out saturday, and I now sit in fear of what tomorrow will bring. Gawd.

Welcome to relationships.

[kryss]

That feeling isn't fear, it's nervous excitement.

[EDDIE M0NS00N]

That feeling isn't fear, it's nervous excitement.

No. its fear mate

[kryss]

Call yourself a man? etc.etc

[Fader209]

The girl I mentioned earlier sent me a text half an hour ago. She wanted to meet all of a sudden, was in the area. I think these sort of situations are kinda scary, so springing something like this on me isn't ideal for me. I replied "Hey, wanna meet tomorrow instead?" She said she would prefer to do it today. By now I was in "man cave mode"; I had not showered today, sat in shorts and t-shirt and had planned to spend the rest of the night drinking coke and playing DS. Therefore I found it best to "warn" her that I wasn't exactly as dolled up as I'd like to be. I replied that I was a bit fatigued from having been out yesterday, but that I could still meet her. Immediately after I hit "send", I changed clothes, threw on some deodorant and waxed up my hair. Few minutes later she replied that we could do it tomorrow instead. Having learnt that she travels home on sundays around 2-3 o'clock, I asked what time she wanted to meet. She replied that we should just see tomorrow how it works out. Makes me think that it might fall through again tomorrow.

This whole situation has been a short emotional roller-coaster for me. Totally disrupted my laxed out saturday, and I now sit in fear of what tomorrow will bring. Gawd.

So what happened in the end? Going by what you told us I kind of get the impression she is messing you about a wee bit and seeing what your limits are.

[randombs]

lol I'm sure your DS appreciated you making an effort for a night in