The Relationship Thread-Good, Bad or Indifferent.

[EDDIE M0NS00N]

Get yourself a fella.

fixed :-)

[Darwock]

Hang on, you've Rik Wallered every one of your posts since the saga began... what's that about? Not really sporting behaviour.

[MisterBubbles]

Hot Coffee?

[Kit]

Sry, massive **** storm last night (and this morning/afternoon) so I have to cover my ass.

Will tell all once the dust has settled.

[Mayhem]

You could have picked something better than Rik Waller

My current girlfriend is slightly mental. The difference is, she knows she is slightly mental, and apologises when she thinks she's overstepped some mark. While it doesn't make it easier per se, it's a lot more reassuring that she knows that she is like that, and not completely oblivious to it? And before you go there with the assumptions, yes she has a great rack and can suck a watermelon through a chain link fence

[EDDIE M0NS00N]

And before you go there with the assumptions, yes she has a great rack and can suck a watermelon through a chain link fence

Well that's fair enough then

[kryss]

i would call rule #1 but...

[Kit]

Dust has sort of cleared now so here's what happened. Got drunk, started listening to the people around me who were calling me too much of a gent and soft, so decided to formulate a harsh text - believe I began the thing with 'you're iced the **** out'. Then had a further moan... then thought better of it but accidentally sent the thing anyway... ****ing bs smart phones. This never happened to me on the button ones.

Got a text really early in the morning saying 'you've really hurt me'.

Yeah, I felt awesome.

So, I have a ****ing conscious and have been trying to make things better and slowly back away ever since.

I can not do the asshole thing it seems.

[Neil]

Oh my God.

Before I go any further how old are you?

[Colin]

'you're iced the **** out'

What? I hate this thread, but your posts have become comedy gold/car crash TV.

[Kit]

Yeah, bit of an error there.

But I'd tried being nice, tried doing the back away slowly thing, (again this is ****ed as she turned me down!?) and was kind of running out of ideas and felt I was having my emotions played with big time tbh - I don't want to be just friends, I'm not sure how clear I've made this.

Anyway, I think that bridge may have been burned now.

[Neil]

What does that even mean?

[Kit]

She wants to be friends. I want more but she doesn't seem to give a **** that I find it difficult around her.

[Darwock]

You should send her another text telling her "you really grate my cheese"

[Lyris]

So at the moment I too have the friendzone blues. I feel a little bit sick. How is it possible that this consistently happens?

It seems that the outcomes are 1: stay friends and feel hurt when she finds some other guy, 2: stay friends but gradually realise she's not all that or 3: cut and run (which I don't want to do because I like her too much). It's just like a sick joke now.

What saddens me most is that, after spending the best part of a week with this lady and getting on like (a house on fire / sliced bread / whatever, you get it), I'm having to face up to the fact that it's just going to follow the exact same path as usual: infatuation, rejection, disappointment, friends, then a slow drift apart.

It's still hot and cold. There are times where I think, "Maybe there IS a chance?". Even if a relationship wouldn't be a good idea, it'd at least be nice to have that opportunity. Do women seriously just randomly text you out the blue and suggest meeting up half of the days in a week and text you to say good night if they want to be just friends? Is there something I'm not doing? How do I change my situation?