Im in a mixed relationship - worth the hassel??

[EDDIE M0NS00N]

Ady has a point. I think she's more to blame than him. She knows what she has to lose. If she wants to be with another guy whatever her reason then she should leave her husband & face the responsibility of looking after the nippers on her own instead of having some kind of comfort blanket.
She chased after ET & from what he said in his last post she knows that its just sex so I would assume that either her poor husband is working himself into the ground for this woman & doesnt have time or is too tired to jump into the sack, or she is just a thrill seeker. Either way it aint fair on the husband or the nippers. I feel sorry for the poor bloke.

I have to say that put in the same position I couldnt do it tho. It would kill me if the same thing happened to me so I wouldnt want to destroy someone elses marriage.
Her husband will find out eventually. Someone will see u together or she'll get pissy about wanting more from u & if u say no she'll tell her husband just so he can kick your head in. A woman scorned n all that.

[Jebus]

I wasn't making an "excuse", neither was I condoning. I was stating a fact.

The point that she was specifically chasing HIM doesn't equate to the FACT!!! that she'd suck any stray cock that was flung her way.

[prinnysquad]

The point that she was specifically chasing HIM doesn't equate to the FACT!!! that she'd suck any stray cock that was flung her way.

haha that would make a great kung fu flick. Temple of Flying Cocks.

[Ady]

The point that she was specifically chasing HIM doesn't equate to the FACT!!! that she'd suck any stray cock that was flung her way.

Precisely, Jebus.

Look, what I'm saying is that she is the one with the family, and she is also the one who instigated the entire affair.

Had it not been ET, it would've been someone else; which points to the fact that there is clearly something within the marriage that needs to be addressed(!).

Either way, the marriage is doomed and rather than communicate with her husband and do the right thing by her kids, this woman has (selfishly) chosen to cheat instead.

As to whether ET should've allowed himself to get involved (i.e. thought with his head rather than his dick) is open to debate, but at the end of the day it's not really his problem as he is not the one in the marriage. I'm not saying this is the right attitude to take, morally speaking but that's how it is.

Of course, if the **** hits the fan and ET gets confronted by an angry husband, then that's something he's going to have to deal with, but calling him names isn't going to save a marriage that's clearly on the rocks anyway.

Anyway, this should be a separate thread now, surely? It's gone way OT!

[DeathAdder]

ET hasn't made the commitments or taken the vows that this woman has. Nothing wrong with what he's doing. The woman's husband, of course, is unlikely to see it that way, but he is hardly in the most objective position.

[gamez]

Just spent a couple of days with my fianc?e, that?s right I proposed on Saturday night?., we talked about everything, bottom line we?ve put up with all the crap and still together?.I went to her parents told them my feelings and asked her father straight up that I want to marry his daughter. I asked him how he can guarantee a person from the same background will treat his daughter as good as I do

The man shocked me, he told me he has always liked me, his missus isn?t to pleased but she will come round?..and has to unless she wants to lose her daughter?.he wasn?t prepared to see his daughter upset or lose her and told me how proud he was of me to stick with her after all the stress Ive had to put up with.

Thanks for the advice, on talking to the family worked a treat?.cant believe it was the work of one woman who caused such agro and she also tried to introduce my missus to a potential suitor. Even the big brother admitted he was siding with his mother.

Big Seany ? I wonder if the mothers are related!

She is Hindu, not Muslim?.

[112]

Made up for you Gamez, and kudos for doing what you did!

WELCOME to the family! Respect that cuisine! lol!

112

[gamez]

Thanks

[jimmbob]

Just spent a couple of days with my fiancée, that’s right I proposed on Saturday night….

Have you considered marriage?

Ahem.


At the very least I deserve an invite. I'm gonna go and buy a new hat at lunch time.

[Paulos G]

When we first got together a friend described us as "Heavy Metal meets Laura Ashley". We're still together 12 years later (married for 10) so I'm proof that mixed marriages can work.

[jimmbob]

Your wife never really struck me as the Heavy Metal type Paulos.

[Paulos G]

She's more the Heavy Baroque type to be fair.

[Jebus]

Just spent a couple of days with my fianc?e, that?s right I proposed on Saturday night?., we talked about everything, bottom line we?ve put up with all the crap and still together?.I went to her parents told them my feelings and asked her father straight up that I want to marry his daughter. I asked him how he can guarantee a person from the same background will treat his daughter as good as I do

The man shocked me, he told me he has always liked me, his missus isn?t to pleased but she will come round?..and has to unless she wants to lose her daughter?.he wasn?t prepared to see his daughter upset or lose her and told me how proud he was of me to stick with her after all the stress Ive had to put up with.

Thanks for the advice, on talking to the family worked a treat?.cant believe it was the work of one woman who caused such agro and she also tried to introduce my missus to a potential suitor. Even the big brother admitted he was siding with his mother.

Big Seany ? I wonder if the mothers are related!

She is Hindu, not Muslim?.

Wonderful post to read, congratulations are most definitely in order.

I'm an old romantic and I believe there are no bridges love can't cross, I hope you have a wonderful life together

[gamez]

Thank you, feels great.

[EDDIE M0NS00N]

Good on ya gamez!!
Its funny how u think all sorts of bad **** in your head but when u finally go for it it can sometimes knock u for 6 as to how different things actually are.

The best of luck to u & your future lady