Originally posted by Fastware
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"If I get a car then I'll be able to get a job" 
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Get her a rover instead. -
Get her a push bike, if she wants anything tell her to get off her lazy ass & find a job. Sounds like a right lazy bitch.Comment
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Does she have to get a job or is it the husband's responsibility to keep her fed and clothed and all that? I mean in terms of the law.Comment
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I've just had 45 minutes monologue of crazy, I tried to record it on my phone for you all so you can hear what I'm dealing with, but she grabbed it and and threatened to throw it out the window.
I'm so glad I can go back to work tomorrow to avoid all this **** for at least 8 hours of the day.
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If you're dealing with an abusive wife, maybe you should look into some sort of concealed recording device? It might sound a bit extreme, but I mean, this is an extreme situation and it doesn't sound like it's of your making!Comment
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I appreciate I'm just some random dude on the net fastware, but you need to sort that out asap, that's not a nice place to be that your that so unhappy at home that you can't wait to be at work.
Get some recording devices, make a note of what she's up to as far as the accusations are concerned, ie lists of what she's accusing you of, then go see a divorce lawyer. It will probably be ****ing aweful to go through, but at least you can startup looking for someone you look forward to go home to, rather than looking forward to get away from.Comment
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War journal
August
Just reporting in tbh. Loads of **** going well now - the tables have turned big time. Still have feelings for that girl though only now people are telling me she's not even in my league (kind of seeing the light on that also) but I still have a soft spot for her and kind of don't care...Comment
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Have to chirp in as I feel Fastware is getting some poor advice. From what you have put on here it's domestic abuse, plain and simple. Taping her isn't moral or appropriate really IMO but you need some sort of professional advice, be it legal, voluntary, through human resources at work etc (whatever you feel is available). Taping somebody to prove/disprove what is going on is a **** move. Surely leave before resorting to that, there is support out thereComment
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It's definitely verbal and emotional abuse, I'm sure she wont see it that way and feels justified that it's just complaints about my behavior in her eyes. I've had enough, I don't want to fix it, I'm ready for getting out now.
This week so far I've allegedly locked the Apple TV because I was looking at porn on Youtube. She was trying to watch TV and movies and didn't realize they need to be payed for, as far as I can work out. I only heard about this after the fact. Who uses the living room TV and youtube for porn anyway!
I gave one of the kids a cold because I was playing with cold water with them. Water pistols in the garden a week ago when it was hot?? (she was playing too BTW)Comment
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Good luck finding porn on YouTube!Comment
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"im having an anxiety attack" hahahaha, no, your not, though you obviously figured out a trick with daddy as a little girl and thought your hubby would fall for it too.Originally posted by Resonance View PostComment
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I'm amazed how **** I can feel after a single text message.
The girl I've held a very large torch for for several years now (let's call her M), who broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years last month, just text me. She's now in a long distance relationship with some guy, and excited asked me to guess who. I've not made a move on her, but I think about it all the time. Guess that window is closed again. She's just text me with who...Comment
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HOW DID YOU KNOW!?
*kills kit*
It's a guy we used to work with a few years back who lives in Europe now. I've managed not to tell her how I feel but to be honest, I'm going to need to otherwise it'll eat at me fora long time.Comment
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