Thanks pal.
I'm not ignoring any advice you guys give, but I also need to do what I feel is right. Obviously i'm taking it on board which is why I decided the card was a bad idea- but only because i'd have to drop the card in myself and I didnt want her thinking I was turning up there randomly all the time- you guys were certainly right there.
I'm obviously taking advice from you guys, as well as listening to my gut- not my anxiety brain- and also from my mum who knows her and has read the complete works.
As I said, i'm not texting begging for her to come back or anything, i'm keeping it light, keeping the lines of communication open, and letting her know i'm missing them and working hard at at.
I'm not ignoring any advice you guys give, but I also need to do what I feel is right. Obviously i'm taking it on board which is why I decided the card was a bad idea- but only because i'd have to drop the card in myself and I didnt want her thinking I was turning up there randomly all the time- you guys were certainly right there.
I'm obviously taking advice from you guys, as well as listening to my gut- not my anxiety brain- and also from my mum who knows her and has read the complete works.
As I said, i'm not texting begging for her to come back or anything, i'm keeping it light, keeping the lines of communication open, and letting her know i'm missing them and working hard at at.
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