The Relationship Thread-Good, Bad or Indifferent.

[S_rank]

Right i'm going nuclear I can't let the friend zone situation with this girl i really like just keep boiling I have to tell her how i feel i'm just going to send her a message telling her my feelings straight a phone call might be weird ,least a message she can contemplate it and have a good think about it .

I'm set i'm going in wish me luck

[randombs]

As a recent Friend Zone graduate, I wish you the best of luck! And don't forget your punctuation!

[S_rank]

Yeah reading some your post made me realise I can't just sit here waiting if it goes wrong it goes wrong I can't be scared she is quite like me ,shy so someone has to make the move.

I'm sorry for some of my post on here I didn't have a spellchecker on my laptop and i was too lazy to look for one it's no excuse really but i've just realised i can do it through a google account which is nice my english skill are dog **** really but i will try to double check everything I post .

[randombs]

I was joking about punctuation but, just as you said she can take time to contemplate it and decide, you also have the advantage of taking some time to write the best message you can and only send it when you're happy. It's hard putting things into words and making it all nice without it sounding like you stole them from a film but be careful, only use words you're comfortable with already. Mine often reminds me of things I've written to her and words I've used and if I went "huh? Did I write that?" I'd be screwed

[S_rank]

Message from the girl I deleted a few bits out of it

I am really not going to find a boyfriend at the moment. Friends are best , and we'd better chat I replied late cause I got lost on my way back home and now I'm home now

Crushed massively in not sure if the smiley a good or a bad thing?

[Kieran76]

Ouch. You never know, a face to face chat could be a good thing. Best it is out in the open though.

[S_rank]

She has invited me round later to speak to her so i'm not sure I get so many mixed message from her its a nightmare, I better think what to say before I go round

[QualityChimp]

Re: The Relationship Thread-Good, Bad or Indifferent.

Yeah, because conversations always go the way we plan them!

Just listen to what she has to say and be grateful you'll have some resolution tonight.

I hope it goes OK for you.

[S_rank]

I'm going around about 10 so will have to see how it goes i'm trying not to think about it now really as i'm over analyzing everything i'm just going to let my heart do the talking when i'm there .

[randombs]

QC's right, but good luck and just be yourself. Honesty works and I don't care what anyone says. Long pauses for effect work well, too, and lots of eye contact. Eye contact worked well for me because I'm generally shy and don't hold people's stares for long and she picked up on this and it demonstrated my resolve.

In my case she was leaving the country so it was a sudden revelation but I also gave lots of reasons why. Really, the main problem with telling friends your feelings is the risk of awkwardness afterwards that you don't really get from someone you just ask out.

Ultimately it'll be her decision and she may have made it already but if she's had rubbish relationships until now then you can try convincing her that taking the next step with a good friend is worth a shot.

[S_rank]

I'm glad it all worked out for you billy

Yeah i'm proper shy I would presume 90% of people who go on a game forum are the same probably my downfall in life I suppose I'm going in about 10 mins so yeah its all or nothing now. Really thanks for the advice relationship advice on a gaming forum is where its at .

[MisterBubbles]

Nother ventured, nothing gained, whats to lose except a little pride and a tiny broken heart, but stay positive and no BS, just be yourself.

[randombs]

Hoping S_rank... S-ranks it

[nakamura]

Billy deserves to be the next king for getting out of the friend zone.

[Lyris]

I have a flat and a mortgage in the friend zone!