The Relationship Thread-Good, Bad or Indifferent.

[Alex_976]

Spilt with my girl of 6 years last week. I'm in bits.

[abigsmurf]

Sucks hard but the important thing to remember is this:

Your life isn't over, you may have good memories, you may not, eitherway, you've now a chance to create better memories and probability is on your side that you'll succeed. Look forward to an even better future. Don't feel your life is over, until you're on your deathbed, you can always move onwards and upwards.

In the mean time...

Walk around the house in your underpants, watch that sex comedy she wouldn't let you watch. Burp and fart loudly as often as possible.

[EDDIE M0NS00N]

Spilt with my girl of 6 years last week. I'm in bits.

Sorry to hear about your situation, but yeah like abigsmurf said try & look on the positive & do whatever the hell you feel like doing for a change.

We're here for ya bro

[Lyris]

I wish I knew what to say. But I'm still feeling the after effects of something that happened to me in Jan/Feb.

If it's any consolation... I'm sure you'll get better faster than I will.

[EvilBoris]

[QUOTE=abigsmurf;1878794
In the mean time...

Walk around the house in your underpants, watch that sex comedy she wouldn't let you watch. Burp and fart loudly as often as possible.[/QUOTE]

Make yourself that meal that contained the thing she refused to eat, even though you love it

[kryss]

Do everything you love to do but she hated you doing. Avoid drinking for the sake of it.



And buy a PS3 and EDF. Shooting bugs helps I hear...

[prinnysquad]

In the mean time...

Walk around the house in your underpants, watch that sex comedy she wouldn't let you watch. Burp and fart loudly as often as possible.

Isn't this normal behaviour anyway? These actions are my bread and butter.

[koopatroopa90]

Isn't this normal behaviour anyway? These actions are my bread and butter.

I'm glad someone said it

[Lyris]

I'm beginning to wonder if it would be sensible to slowly let go of the idea of monogamy.

The idea of having something exclusive appeals to me, but from what I see, hear and experience, it doesn't seem that there are many people (least of all the most women) who are actually capable of it.

What do you guys think? Would we all be better off in the long run if we just accepted that other people will get involved at some point?

[monel]

Doesn't an 'open' relationship situation usually end up in trouble or sometimes a Crimewatch reconstruction?

[Lyris]

Don't they all...

From what I've seen, a lot of people like the idea of an "open" relationship (I don't really see the appeal myself) but are unprepared to deal with the emotional consequences.

[EDDIE M0NS00N]

I think the female world has changed a lot in the last 10 yrs. Women are more in control & are believe that they deserve only the best because 'they're worth it' (), so I guess if they're not happy with even the smallest thing (& I dont mean the old todge), then they should give up immediatley & look elsewhere.

And judging by what a lot of younger guys who I work with (late teens to mid 20's) that are going thru the whole falling in love/copping off it seems that girls these days are too money/possession hungry & are spoilt little bints.

Open relationships are a strange thing. I guess its about not being tied down but wanting to shag lots of ppl but not have to pay for it. But then what if they meet someone that they really click with?
Slllaaaaaaaaaaaigs!

[nakamura]

I'm beginning to wonder if it would be sensible to slowly let go of the idea of monogamy.

The idea of having something exclusive appeals to me, but from what I see, hear and experience, it doesn't seem that there are many people (least of all the most women) who are actually capable of it.

What do you guys think? Would we all be better off in the long run if we just accepted that other people will get involved at some point?

Interesting thoughts.

Well I used to think like that but with my wife I don't at all. I trust her 100% even though she is far prettier than I am! Strange one. If the right person is out there, as cliched as it is, it can easily work.
The main issue is the people always try to get out when the going gets though rather than sort a problem. When most people have relationship problems they turn to sex with someone else too easily.

For me, you can be mates with someone all of your life easily so why not partners with someone?

[kryss]

One woman at a time is more than enough trouble. A friend of mine had his girlfriend back in the Phillipines but was still servicing a handful of others here. He was asking for trouble and now his misses is here, it can't be too far behind and it would all be his own fault. I have no intention of taking any action, I'm just going to watch it all play out.

As for me, I don't think it's a good idea to give up your idea of what your relationships should be, even if that does see you alone for stretches of time. Stick to your guns and don't be giving up.

Oh and my ex-sister-in-law doesn't like my ex's boyfriend, which I find hilarious

[Rossco]

I'm beginning to wonder if it would be sensible to slowly let go of the idea of monogamy.

The idea of having something exclusive appeals to me, but from what I see, hear and experience, it doesn't seem that there are many people (least of all the most women) who are actually capable of it.

What do you guys think? Would we all be better off in the long run if we just accepted that other people will get involved at some point?

I've kinda been on a similar thought process lately. Everyone just seems to cheat now.

I had a thing with this girl a few weeks ago even though she has a boyfriend and I felt guilty about it and I'm the single one!! I feel bad if I'm casually texting or chatting up two girls at once yet everyone around just seems to cheat without thinking twice about it.