Thanks, DT, you too. It's great we can all vent here, but the golden rule really should be seek professional help.
Most people don't want to be a burden and blokes particularly see it as a sign of weakness if they can't deal with issues themselves.
These things have a knock-on effect on everyone around them when they're not tackled.
Your mother-in-law didn't seek help so your wife is stressed.
Your wife stressed and off work.
You're shouldering all of this and presumably don't want to interfere, so sit around feeling impotent to help.
Are your kids getting your best?
Probably not, so seek help for those who need it and yourself if needs be.
Most people don't want to be a burden and blokes particularly see it as a sign of weakness if they can't deal with issues themselves.
These things have a knock-on effect on everyone around them when they're not tackled.
Your mother-in-law didn't seek help so your wife is stressed.
Your wife stressed and off work.
You're shouldering all of this and presumably don't want to interfere, so sit around feeling impotent to help.
Are your kids getting your best?
Probably not, so seek help for those who need it and yourself if needs be.
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