The Relationship Thread-Good, Bad or Indifferent.

[Yoshimax]

I love the new mental insanelord that is Crisp (2007 preview edition) - Merry Xmas

Look at that avatar go.

[Crisp_Rapper]

that is actually me in a sonic the hedgehog suit, punching a child... i had someone videotape it and turn it into a cell-shaded avatar so i didn't get into trouble.

[EDDIE M0NS00N]

I'm a bit confused by that story - But either way girls who stay in touch with ex's is just plain wrong - they'll always end up screwing at some point. Seriously - You must realise that's what he's calling for ???

Also, how the **** did he end up in the same shop as you two ? Either it's a very small place or did you msg him back telling him where you'd be ? Or has she been speaking to him from her new SIM ?

Yeah but I've never, ever seen a bloke who keeps in touch with his ex. I never did in the past, mainly because too many bad memories & I just want to move on.
I do wonder what he's playing at. It must be to see if theres a chance he could be in for a shag. I mean, its been 6 yrs since they split up, so why turn up now & **** things up for me?
I didnt tell him where we were going to be. It was just a coincidence, because we didnt even plan to go down town. It was a friend of my gf's who needed to hook up with her cousin & I know she wouldnt try to push them together again because she even said to my gf, "god, what did u see in him!", to which my gf didnt say a word.

bignige - I wouldnt text that sort of thing to him as, from what my missus used to keep going on about, he used to do some pretty shadey stuff to her anyway.
112 & anephric - the light has been flashing long b4 this incident came up I can tell u!!

I mentioned in passing last night the fact that he said he 'had intended to pop up & see her' when we saw him & that I was surprised he hadnt try to phone her or summat. She said she didnt want to know. Its not good enough for me though. I'm still keeping my eyes on him!!

I'm not going to play the jealous type though. If its gonna happen its gonna happen. If she does do summat with him I'll kick her into touch & kick the **** out of him!, hopefully in front of her, & use the 'C' word (a lot) which I know she hates hearing!!

[Yoshimax]

bignige - I wouldnt text that sort of thing to him as, from what my missus used to keep going on about, he used to do some pretty shadey stuff to her anyway.
112 & anephric - the light has been flashing long b4 this incident came up I can tell u!!

Mother of God the tit-****ting has taken place already ?

[clnmckec]

Yeah but I've never, ever seen a bloke who keeps in touch with his ex. I never did in the past, mainly because too many bad memories & I just want to move on.
I do wonder what he's playing at. It must be to see if theres a chance he could be in for a shag. I mean, its been 6 yrs since they split up, so why turn up now & **** things up for me?
I didnt tell him where we were going to be. It was just a coincidence, because we didnt even plan to go down town. It was a friend of my gf's who needed to hook up with her cousin & I know she wouldnt try to push them together again because she even said to my gf, "god, what did u see in him!", to which my gf didnt say a word.

bignige - I wouldnt text that sort of thing to him as, from what my missus used to keep going on about, he used to do some pretty shadey stuff to her anyway.
112 & anephric - the light has been flashing long b4 this incident came up I can tell u!!

I mentioned in passing last night the fact that he said he 'had intended to pop up & see her' when we saw him & that I was surprised he hadnt try to phone her or summat. She said she didnt want to know. Its not good enough for me though. I'm still keeping my eyes on him!!

I'm not going to play the jealous type though. If its gonna happen its gonna happen. If she does do summat with him I'll kick her into touch & kick the **** out of him!, hopefully in front of her, & use the 'C' word (a lot) which I know she hates hearing!!

No offense man but why do you wish to share all this stuff with strangers! develop some cahonas and deal with it rather than posting it to strangers!

[Kaido]

theres nothing wrong with sharing if u want a different perspective. ...besides i havent heard of a decent tit ****ting in ages

[clnmckec]

theres nothing wrong with sharing if u want a different perspective. ...besides i havent heard of a decent tit ****ting in ages

ok to a point yeah but i think some of the stories in the above thread are a bit OTT to be sharing with strangers just my 2p worth

[EDDIE M0NS00N]

theres nothing wrong with sharing if u want a different perspective. ...besides i havent heard of a decent tit ****ting in ages

By the way, I'm not talking about tit ****ting. It's just that he's a dirty, woman belittleing/abusing bastard & it just sounds like summat he'd get a kick out of & be happy to do. I found out that he'd been shagging another girl b4 he was my gf's ex so I dont think that the fact that he's got a gf & a kid now is going to stop him if he feels like it. People never change.

I promise u guys that I'll knock the wanker out if he tries anything

[Dirty Sanchez]

Hang on a minute.

How long has she had the same mobile number? 6 years?

If he's still calling her now then they are either still friends, which is possible although she doesn't share that with you, or he's nailing her.

You appear to have serious trust issues, being sly about the orginal message instead of just asking her upfront. Even when you did ask her it was in a round about way. Get to the point and sort it out.

You don't appear to have a great deal of confidence in yourself, looking up to this other guy in someway with him being so cocksure etc. Kicking the crap out of the guy after the fact will do noone any good. Get the facts from your Mrs then go back to him and cut him out of the picture once and for all.

What's with all the pussy footing around?

[spagmasterswift]

Get the facts from your Mrs then go back to him and cut him

Hold up there Sanchez!!!



I agree, kicking this guys arse after he has messed up your womans head once again isn't gonna help - she gonna need you once he kicks her to the kurb again innit! If you ruff house the boy up too bad she may start thinking you are a violent prick too...

[bignige]

No offence meant with my type first, think later remarks!
Got my serious head on now. I've always found that although difficult at the time, all the heartache, soul searching, frustration & anger really isn't worth it in the end. Put yourself first, if you feel like you're getting the runaround, in all honesty, you probably are. Strictly 24hr is the way forward!

[EDDIE M0NS00N]

No offence meant with my type first, think later remarks!
Got my serious head on now. I've always found that although difficult at the time, all the heartache, soul searching, frustration & anger really isn't worth it in the end. Put yourself first, if you feel like you're getting the runaround, in all honesty, you probably are. Strictly 24hr is the way forward!

Thanx mate. Totally agree with u about putting yourself 1st & in the last few yrs I've realised that.
If summat happens she's booted & he'll be knocked out!!

[Yoshimax]

Nige wtf ?

Tommy - He's saying give yourself 24 hours to decided what to do here - the exact opposite of "wait and see if something happens and when/if it does act" - Doing that will only dent your own self esteem. If you proactively boot her now first trust me you will feel so much better about yourself !!!

It really doesn't sound like you're having much fun in this relationship - Maybe you're enjoying the kind of knife-edge have-they/will-they suspense & stuff but trust me you'll be a lot better off without it.

[clnmckec]

Nige wtf ?

Tommy - He's saying give yourself 24 hours to decided what to do here - the exact opposite of "wait and see if something happens and when/if it does act" - Doing that will only dent your own self esteem. If you proactively boot her now first trust me you will feel so much better about yourself !!!

It really doesn't sound like you're having much fun in this relationship - Maybe you're enjoying the kind of knife-edge have-they/will-they suspense & stuff but trust me you'll be a lot better off without it.

and better keeping it private, FFS geniunly think its lame sharing stuff like this with strangers if you must talk to someone call the samaratins or take my advice dump her and head out on the lash with your mates over xmas and new year.

[bignige]

Nige wtf ?

Tommy - He's saying give yourself 24 hours to decided what to do here - the exact opposite of "wait and see if something happens and when/if it does act" - Doing that will only dent your own self esteem. If you proactively boot her now first trust me you will feel so much better about yourself !!!

It really doesn't sound like you're having much fun in this relationship - Maybe you're enjoying the kind of knife-edge have-they/will-they suspense & stuff but trust me you'll be a lot better off without it.

Nah mate, I meant keep the next few relationships strictly 24hr!