The Relationship Thread-Good, Bad or Indifferent.

[Lyris]

This picture usually makes me feel better.



Today I just found out that she's blocked my chat accounts. I wasn't trying to message her, I was just curious as to why my contact list looked different.

While I'm pretty much over her, what I'm not over is the sheer unaccountability (we agreed to stay friends) and callous disregard for other people's feelings. Simply put, I'm scared that they're all going to be like this. One minute it's hunky-dory, the next they have a 'bad feeling' with little to no rational backing, and then after that it's all over. I guess we just have to harden up and approach these things as if they could go tits up at any moment, without warning.

The bit I don't yet understand, is how you are supposed to accept that things can end at any minute, and still remain calm and enjoy things. The two don't seem to go together. Do I really want to be in relationships if that dark cloud is constantly hovering in the background?

[teddymeow]

I like that picture, Lyris.

The disregard for feelings is what gets me too. The fact that she can be so outwardly blas? about the end of a 9 year relationship staggers me.

[Lyris]

9 years, that is staggering. Do you think it's a front, a brave face?

It really saddens me that relationships seem to turn into power games - keeping the upper hand to ward off the possibility of getting trampled on. I don't want that.

[nakamura]

That bird was fit wasnt she back then!!. Wonder what she looks like now?

Filled out a tad.

[teddymeow]

9 years, that is staggering. Do you think it's a front, a brave face?

It really saddens me that relationships seem to turn into power games - keeping the upper hand to ward off the possibility of getting trampled on. I don't want that.

I don't know if it's a brave face or not. Some friends have said they've seen her walking through town looking a bit lost and blank but she's living with this other bloke now so I think she's totally moved on despite the fact that, and I checked with my Solicitor today, she is committing adultery. Part of me wishes I'd dropped that bombshell as my petition but I don't think things would have moved as fast as they have.

I need to stay positive that I'll be, just, 30, divorced and with a few offers should I need a person to help ease my suffering; if you catch my drift.

Until that time I've just got to sit tight and play the waiting game.

[EDDIE M0NS00N]

Filled out a tad.

I still think she's pretty hot imo.

Found out that she had breast cancer back in Jan 2010, so could be the reason for the increase in weight.

[nakamura]

Yeah I still think so too. There is another vid of her performing alone and she looks very nice.

[Skull Commander]

Filled out a tad.

Mair cushion for the pushin'

[Spatial]

No no, no no no no, no no no no, no no there's no diet.






edit: for the sake of clarity that's just a joke, she's hardly a porker.

[vanpeebles]

Teddy Meow! You need to pretend you're in Yakuza 4, chain smoke six packets of tabs and then tell her to find a job in the red light district.

[toythatkills]

No no, no no no no, no no no no, no no there's no diet.


edit: for the sake of clarity that's just a joke, she's hardly a porker.

I didn't even think about what your message meant, I was so busy checking that you had the correct number of "no"s

[teddymeow]

Teddy Meow! You need to pretend you're in Yakuza 4, chain smoke six packets of tabs and then tell her to find a job in the red light district.

Akiyama is proving to be a potential role model for me.

[koopatroopa90]

I didn't even think about what your message meant, I was so busy checking that you had the correct number of "no"s

I didn't think there was a limit?

[toythatkills]

If you come to the ntsc-uk meet, remind me to shake your hand

[kryss]

I like that picture, Lyris.

The disregard for feelings is what gets me too. The fact that she can be so outwardly blas? about the end of a 9 year relationship staggers me.

I hear you there.

Ex is living with her boyfriend who wasn't her boyfriend to start with. *sigh* I gave up caring about that crap. Accidentally listened to a CBC podcast with her in (she did a telly spot too apparently). Still using my surname. I found that really ****ing insulting.

I was always crap with relationships and just don't care anymore. I'm actually happier than I have been for years.