The Relationship Thread-Good, Bad or Indifferent.

[MisterBubbles]

Boom Boom!

[QualityChimp]

Good luck in your Germanian adventures, Herr Blase!

[fishbowlhead]

As other people have said, it's all about confidence. If you have confidence in yourself, others see it too.

Also meeting people while doing things you love helps too. If you have hobbies your passionate about try joining a club, you'd be surprised how effective it is as you already have something in common and have conversation starters. If nothing else it can again help with self confidence. Never underestimate romance either, don't let it die guys!!


I once walked into a club in Iceland on my own, chatted to a gorgeous brunette Icelandic woman, copped hold of her, smoked all her cigarettes, got free drinks all night and got her to pay for a taxi back to hers. Not because I'm good looking, but because I had the bottle to talk to her when others didn't and I had confidence doing it.

Remember, alpha male.


@misterbubbles. I had a thing with a German woman last year, we had great times and I have to say I do have a thing for Germanic chicks, very straight with you and honest, if they like you they like you, no games or messing. Good luck, where about you moving to?

[nakamura]

Confidence is key but not arrogance. Showing you are happy with who you are is the most important thing you need.

[Brad]

@misterbubbles. I had a thing with a German woman last year, we had great times and I have to say I do have a thing for Germanic chicks, very straight with you and honest, if they like you they like you, no games or messing. Good luck, where about you moving to?

This. Similar experience although with an Austrian girl. My new favourite nation!

[Colin]

If you want to meet new people without the pressures of dating, have a look at meet up. I think it runs in most major cities. It's a way for you to hang out with like minded people in to the same things that you are, and there are tons of women on it so you never know who you might meet. I used to be on it in London for random gig buddies for concerts my mates wouldn't fancy going to.

[MisterBubbles]

Im moving to Ausgburg which is one hour away from Munich, so the heart of Bayern, what's not to like amazing cheap beer and so more nicer culture and living standard, i've won a watch.

[charlesr]

You forget about MH3U.

LOL. That's exactly the same thing I said in IRC earlier.

[EDDIE M0NS00N]

If you want to meet new people without the pressures of dating, have a look at meet up. I think it runs in most major cities. It's a way for you to hang out with like minded people in to the same things that you are, and there are tons of women on it so you never know who you might meet. I used to be on it in London for random gig buddies for concerts my mates wouldn't fancy going to.

Yeah yeah. We believe you

[dvdx2]

e.g.

She mentioned why I don't wear shades once and my response was I don't want to look like a poser twat who's trying too hard.


Then she got out her shades lol

oops.

Better answer would have been 'yes, who cares' but lesson learned I guess.

Dont beat yourself up about that, if that was a contributing factor to being dumped, you are well out of it.

You will go through alot of incompatibility, before meeting the right person. Dont try too hard, just be yourself and it will happen.

[charlesr]

Jokes removed - not suitable for here. Keep it for real life with friends who understand, not for public.

[Kit]

[fishbowlhead]

Well, this is getting more ****ed up by the day. The 'friend' of the girl I was interested in appears to have liked me for a while and apparently actively put said girl off so she could make a move on me - oh dear, I appear to have a knife in my back.

I barely know this person and she has managed to back stab me 3 times in a ****ing month and I've helped her through a difficult time in this period too.

I'm going to become a hermit crab again. I can't be dealing with this ****.

English chicks are crazy fella, don't beat yourself up about it. Though you should of seen the signs with this girl and put 2&2 together on what she was up to. Silly rabbit.

There's always becoming a Buddhist monk, the cool shoalin kind not the pacifist kind mind you.

Germanic chicks for the win too, just though I'd add that as well

[Kit]

Ugh... tomorrow is going to be a mare.

Think I'll pack my bags and head to China. Hopefully I will meet a nice girl on the way and possibly track down lan di.

[dazzling_bubble]

Have you made this 'friend' clear how you actually feel? Does she think you're going to live happily ever after and have babies?