Originally posted by Keith
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Hah! I started this thread! Man, that seems like a lifetime ago now. Since then I have bought my own house, had a 15K pay rise (lubbly jubbly), and most importantly... have been lucky enough to find a new girlfriend!
(Although she WILL be getting neglected next with the advent of GTA4!)
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Glad it all turned out great for you!Comment
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Bloody hell - I go offline for a few days and come back to this! Jesus Basers - feel really sorry for you mate.
Me and the missus have been having a few maritals lately but all worked through now. God knows what I would do without her - she is ace.
Seriously tho John if you want a chat or come over for beers or whatever you know where I am.Comment
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Threads like this make me so so glad to be perpetually single.Comment
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Cheers, ive been in contact with her today and im starting to get to the point where im thinking shes an unremorseful twat whore and im better off getting back out to being an idiot with my mates and getting back into gary numan lp's or something good i havnt had much chance to listen to the last year.Comment
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John just go home tonight, put on Lexicon of Love, have a ****, shower and shave and then go out and get massacred. It must be easy to pull some slag down your way surely - plus you can beat the back out of her on the shrink wrapped settee before you send it back.Comment
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If she wanted it to work out, she wouldn't have come to a snap decision. Sounds like an excuse to me. Don't go back.
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Love the Avatar Huxley! I think we should advise all people who are jilted and hurt by breakups to listen to Downward spiral...that should do the job!Comment
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Actually I think Broken is the better stress-reliever. It's relentless fury should be "the perfect drug", so to speak.Comment
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Well here I was not maybe a few months ago reading this thread and others, and thinking "it will never happen to us, our relationship is perfect"....
Now my girlfriend of two years has just dumped me last night. Not only that but within the space of a few hours, has already changed the relationship status on Facebook to single, and deleted me as a friend.
Totally distraught. Throughout our two years everything has been perfect, same interests, hobbies, sense of humour, everything amazing.
Then about 6 months ago, I move into a better house and on my own instead of with best mates (whom a massive argument occured and are no longer mates with, so not even got anyone to talk to about it...) and she got a new job working evenings at ASDA. Thats when things started getting strained.
We went from seeinging each other maybe 3-4 times a week at the old place, to seeing her only late friday night, saturday all day and Sunday evening. Obviously I wasnt happy and its taken time to adjust, but we did have a few discussions and arguments about it.
The only time I knew anything of worth was brewing was a month ago when just before my birthday she asked if we should break up as we were "different people now" I fought this, we worked it out and she said it was mostly down to her, but agreed that we wouldnt talk about the work situation as it was only making things worse. She goes to uni in the day, and work in the evenings, so wasnt having much time to herself anyway, but she only had a year of uni left, and agreed we would work through it until then. My birthday was a few days later, and we were going to Videogameslive together for which she had bought the tickets for us.
This year for christmas I was invited over there, which was great I thought as I really get along with her family. I have two weeks off so she was to spend the time I am off around my house before and after work as she had no uni, only work. This I thought was top as i havent had any time off in the 6 months sine we moved, I thought it would be a nice time to relax together and ease off some of the pressure.
The night before christmas eve, I get told by her she'd been offered loads of overtime over this period and she was taking it, meaning we would still barely see each other even while I was off. She wanted a new car, and wanted the hours which I understood, but wasnt happy about it at all.
Over christmas in her house, she was strange, either really melancholy, or really happy with me. I asked what was up, and was told that its nothing, and that she gets a little melancholy over christmas- which is understandable as her nan died around this time.
However, I caught her looking at a student forum reading a thread -much like this one - about a girl wanting to dump her boyfriend of 3 years but not knowing how... Alarm bells rung, but she regularly reads this forum for some of the funny stories so wrote it off.
My parents came down the day after boxing day from Southampton (im in South Wales) to spend the night, however she had taken overtime in the day on this day, which was fair enough as my mum wasnt coming until the night. We all spent time together, has some drinks and laughs, went out for a meal, and she was perfectly fine, not a problem, my mum even commented on how happy we were.
After spending a few days together since then, she'd been melancholy again, and again im told "it's nothing, just dont want to go to work" etc. She comes back from her shift last night at about 10:30, and tells me the reason shes melancholy is because she wants to break up.
I wanted to know why, but she wouldnt say, couldnt give me a answer, only the usual guff about "we're different people". Howevr she told me that "the way my life is going, she couldnt see us together in the future".
That hurt. Alot.
I obviously try and talk about it, get angry when she refuses to even give me any reasoning. She takes her spare Asda shirt and her make up and leaves. I told her not to take everything as she still has things of mine too, and they would be an oppurtunity to talk about this when emotions are not so high. She agrees, and leaves. As anyone in this situation, you hope that things might change after some time passes, and that you can talk and work it out, however I wake up this morning to find the status on Facebook changed, and that she has deleted me.
I guess thats it. Its all over. I honestly am so unhappy right now I dont know what to do with myself. Since being with her ive moved, got a promotin and better salary, passed my driving test, bought a car, stopped smoking (5 months now- been trying to do for years) got my finances in order, so much.
I cant help but keep thinking that I wont ever be able to touch her again, stroke her hair, give her a hug and a kiss, have sex. That makes me feel so unhappy as I loved her more than life itself. I woke up this morning and smelt one of her night tops as it still smelt of her, and all I could do was bawl my eyes out. Thats pretty much all ive done since she left.
That and go out and buy twenty fags. Yes, im now back smoking. I now have another week off before work, alone. To sit here and think constantly about the great thing that i'll now not have again.
What the ****.Last edited by MrKirov; 01-01-2010, 15:08.Comment
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Gutted.
Still. More gaming time now. If you'd done the marriage thing, there would have been a whole lot less.
Stop smoking - Using her dumping you as an excuse for getting back into the cigs will seem daft in a couple of months time.
Sounds pretty terminal with the whole friend removal on facebook etc, so I'm guessing a fair bit more moping for a couple of weeks dude.
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